Here is a listing of many items that you may have thought of but is just not high enough on the list to remember until the last minute, when things tend to get the worst. Better to have a checklist now than additional stress later.
WEDDING STATIONERY
Invitations
Announcements
Reception or Dinner Enclosure Cards
Respond Cards and Envelopes
At Home Cards
Informals
Thank-You Notes
Wedding Programs
ITEMS FOR THE CEREMONY
Ring Bearer Pillow
Flower Girl Basket
Garter
Bridal Bible
Lace Parasols and Fans
Wedding Candle
Bridal Purse
Bridal Hosiery
ATTENDANTS' GIFTS
Personalized Stationery
Leather Products
Personalized Jewelry
Specialty Gift Items
ITEMS FOR THE RECEPTION
Cocktail Napkins
Luncheon Napkins
Dinner Napkins
Coasters
Place Cards
Groom's Cake Bags or Boxes
Book Matches
Cake Tops
Bubbles
Cake Knife and Server
Punch Cups
Hot Cups
Candles
Tissue Bell Decorations
Tissue Bell Centerpieces
Paper Plates
Plastic Silverware
Table Covers
Toasting Glasses
Reception Aprons
Stir Sticks
Ribbons
BOOKS
Shower Book
Bridal Book Guest Book
Gift Book
Photo Book
OTHER WEDDING ITEMS
Planning Your Wedding File
Bridal Gown Cover
Wedding Invitation Tray
Groom's Garter
Plume Pen
Shower Plan Book
Wedding Plan Book